Paul Goldsmith once found himself in a dark place, on a boat on the Thames with strangers who were taking drugs.

Now Paul, who previously lived in Dereham Road, Norwich is celebrating six years sober.

The 45-year-old recalls knowing that he needed to address his issues when he could no longer go to events or see family if there was not going to be alcohol available.  

Norwich Evening News: Paul now loves spending time with his two children Paul now loves spending time with his two children (Image: Paul Andrew Goldsmith)

The dad-of-three said: “I felt like the only way I would be fun at the event was with a few drinks inside me – but it became so I couldn’t recall the night before.” 

The final straw for Paul was when he went to a work event in London and made some friends with a couple of people in the bar.  

His colleagues decided to go to bed, but Paul stayed out with the couple.  

Norwich Evening News: He is now celebrating six years sober He is now celebrating six years sober (Image: Paul Andrew Goldsmith)

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He continued: “I ended up on a houseboat on the Thames.  

“Things turned strange, they brought out an array of drugs.  

“Despite being paralytic, I realised I could be in a lot of danger. I managed to find my way off the boat.” 

Paul first began going to Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meetings but being a social alcoholic, he struggled with feeling like he needed to be there. 

But all of that pressure led to a nervous breakdown.  

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Norwich Evening News: The 45 year old has accepted himself, which he believes is the key The 45 year old has accepted himself, which he believes is the key (Image: Paul Andrew Goldsmith)

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He said: “For me, the breakdown was the final trigger - I started going to counselling sessions. 

"Through those sessions, the drink was identified as a problem.  

“Funnily enough, not so much the drink itself, but more how that history had left me feeling internally about myself.” 

Now, six years on – Paul is loving life. 

The model, actor and theatre director lives in Coltishall and has been going to the gym and teaching at Norwich Theatre Royal.

Norwich Evening News: Paul is a successful stage and screen actor Paul is a successful stage and screen actor (Image: Teele Dunkly)

He added: “I feel strong, confident and above all, I feel me.  

“To be the one to say ‘I don’t drink’ is incredibly empowering.” 

Paul hopes his story will help others to change their narrative.